...how did we get to this place...

day 53

...& more importantly where to go from here...

(love the fact that i have completely deviated from the love theme, & i try to slip it in acting like it counts...ohh well thank God this blog has no restrictions; who reads it anyway;)...

i know where the hell is she taking us now...this particular topic i am correlating it with a relationship (ha, there is the love:)...this does not necessarily mean that it is "couple" relationship, it could be friendly, it could be family, it could be just anything you categorize under the term relationship...

definition of a relationship (according to DP dictionary, yes that would be me:) -- where two people find common interests, beliefs, morals, traditions, or values & share in events that involve those factors...

however in saying my definition have you ever been in a relationship where it started off amazingly well & you thought that the person would be in your life forever & then you reach a point where either you have drifted apart, one is putting in more effort than the other, or all those common "stuff" is no longer common?

so after this becomes aware to both parties, what do you do?  do you cut your losses, even though it was one of the greatest relationships you have ever been in, do you walk away?  does that person become more of acquaintance than a friend?  we are all aware that relationships evolve & develop, but when does one step back & say, "hey this isn't working for me?"  do you keep working at it?  what point to you keep fighting, & what point do you hold on?  if this is it, is there anyway you can go back to where you were before, after some time has passed??  what is, if anything, forgivable or excusable when it comes to a solid relationship???

get back to me, & i will weigh in tmrw from where i stand (don't get to excited)...

<3 KN