...love is a verb.” (Gary Chapman)...
...the man i just quoted wrote a book on the 5 love languages...many of us have heard about them...many have heard one must have an idea of what they all are & maybe one necessarily does not have to be 100% full in all but those people in our life including the significant others that are placed in our life will most likely compliment your love languages...so the ones that you are 'weak' in they will be stronger and vice versa...eventually working to keep a balance in the 5 love languages...so what are they & where do you fit in...
the five love languages --
-words of affirmation
-quality time
-receiving gifts
-acts of service
-physical touch
where do your love languages rank; curious? www.5lovelanguages.com; do it you know you want to...
...so where am i...
1. quality time
2. physical touch
3. acts of service
4. words of affirmation
4. receiving gifts
(i tied the last two)...
...as many of you know i am all about people and the time we give people in our life...so i am happy that it is reflected and is one of my top love languages...the gift of time, is the best gift anyone could ever get...& not to say any of these other ones are not as important...i love & hate time...i love time because the moments that need to last can maybe hold on for one more second; just long enough to imprint the memory on your heart...and for those moments it was just you and them..but i also hate time because it slips past us & we are often caught looking back thinking if i only had more time, if i could have said one more thing...but no matter whether i love the moment or hate the time passing by, i have to think of the quality of that moment...was i engaged or was i preoccupied?...did i stop and say hold on a minute or did i rush through everything to only miss the best part?...did i find the quality in it?...was i there to just be in that moment?...
...its where my love is ; where is yours??
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