14 days ~"...finishing this chapter so as to leap to the next one..."
...i have written about moving on & letting go...my thoughts of it being, one of thee hardest things to do as a human, especially when it comes to people...however it is also one of thee most selfless acts a person can do...a phrase to live by...
"if you care enough about someone in any capacity and you cannot give them what they need or what they deserve and they cannot let go; you have to be the bigger person and let them go..."
...why let that person hold on if you know deep down they need to move on...set them free...maybe they go hand in hand, letting go and setting someone free...
FOR ME...& the last 30 years of practicing what i am preaching...
...it is a tough one for me, even though i am all about embracing & living in the present and letting the past be the past & letting the future determine the future...i struggle with letting go; often not wanting to write my next chapter or not wanting to let a character (person) be no longer part of my story...i want to fit everyone & everything in & have their purpose be maxed out but in reality that is not how life goes...events happen most often good or life changing for the better but then there are times when those happenings are not so good, & we feel as if something is sucking us back in over & over...but it is us not being willing and ready to let go...then once we prove to ourselves yet again by flipping the page & starting on chapter 30, that the story, our story, is much stronger, more interesting & 10x better, we know, i know, it was so f*^%&* worth it...
...as far as people, those are the hardest ones to let go...i know i need to realize that maybe they were only supposed to be a part of my story for a chapter or even a few pages & not the whole book...& that is OK...& i am not one to write people off completely; but just maybe when i do let them go they become my secondary characters instead of my main characters...they may even show up a few chapters later, but i know i have to let them have their time to develop their own story so as only to enhance mine if that is the way it is supposed to be...and that also allows for others to be a part of my story...
this lesson, even though epic is not easy, but is vital...b/c without moving on how is one supposed to live...
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