your person, your lobster...

day 63...

(realizing i just talked about friends &; how much i love them, this may seem a little repetitive or that i touched on finding the person in your life; HOWEVER don't get your panties in a bunch..."ohh, i'm going some where with this")

a link to refresh you memory, in case you forgot... a lobster...
He's her Lobster

...do you have a lobster, or a person?

do you know lobsters mate for life, so when one is looking to find one's lobster, one should consider the magnitude of commitment that one is setting forth...it is not a quick go around & in fact you should almost consider someone who has become a friend that you can not live without...even Rachel & Ross tried not being friends and where did that lead, Ross getting another divorce & eventually in the end after everything, he is back with his lobster, Rachel...(i know i have an obsession with friends, its ok i have admitted to it)...

a lobster, can be the person that challenges you on your viewpoint just to make sure you know what you are fighting for...
a lobster will be there to hold you when your world is not making sense....
a lobster will be the one you literally want to punch in the face & kiss at the same time...
a lobster is your best friend...
a lobster looks at you & can almost tell you what you are thinking...
a lobster is your person that you want to do everything with yet exist independently...
a lobster will be the person you celebrate your life with...

...i think when you discover your lobster you know...it is the pit of your stomach that tells you this is it...it is the peace you feel when they are around...

Cheers to your lobster & where ever my lobster may be...

<3 SM
<3 JJ