11.15.2012

...hope and chance...

day 319...

*lucky you; a twofer for the night :)

...we all have a hope that by some chance things will work out the exact way we plan it...but that is not how it always works...we hope and pray that something will work out...or that we get a chance...then we wait with all the hope in the world...

...it can go one way where you feel like you are on cloud 9, like living in a dream....then there are those moments where it never works out...those moments where you hold your head up high, put a smile on your face, and walk away...the one difference you can make at that point is you could never give hope another chance or you could allow hope to keep burning...until that next chance walks in the door...

<3 DS

11.13.2012

"the holiday," finding the love in it...

day 318...

...while watching the movie, "the holiday"..I realize several things...first, being we should adopt some British phrases, 'happy christmas', 'fancy that', 'bollocks', 'bugger off,'...& so many others, just sayin' it just sounds better or it could be the accent...

...moving on, each time I watch this movie I think I fall more in love with it...I love the story lines of the different characters...I love that Cameron Diaz is struggling to find how to love, Jude Law is finding his balance in love, Jack Black just wants to love and have someone love him back, and Kate Winslet is trying to mend her broken heart and discover that someone is willing to chase and fall in love with her...

...but it is also about how love can be the most wonderful thing in the world and at the very same time it can destroy your heart...and when loves come into play it can be messy and not make sense...it can also be where love is what one wants but the other person is in another place or just isn't and that is when it hurts where your breath gets caught in your throat and your heart seems like it is falling out of your chest...so why do we do it, because deep down we are all hoping for the Hollywood ending...

<3 NA

11.12.2012

describing one's love life...

day 317...

...in what better way than a song(s)...

my love life...

if you're not the one than i will keep looking until i find YOU...
...because i need you now...
& if by chance our paths should cross & it doesn't work out...
...i will know that i cannot make you feel my love & i will let you go...
in hoping that i find someone like you...
HOWEVER i won't give up until the the time comes when i fall in love  ...
for it only to last forever,
...knowing that you are my person, you are my heart, my everything...
...& i'm so lucky to have you in my life...
that i will not be able to live with or without you...
because i know that by being near you it
feels like home ...
and you will be mine at last
...& our love is completely unforgettable...
BUT for now i haven't met you yet ;)


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11.11.2012

just dance (according to my nieces and nephews)

day 316...

...i had the pleasure of going to visit my brother and sister in-law and their 4 kids...not only do i love playing with them but I also enjoy watching them sing and dance; especially when they play 'just dance' on the wii...now my niece, francesca is obsessed with it and all she wants to do is dance to nanana...

...link to her favorite...nanana...

...my nephews decided to play with her and so they come out strong and Francesca, well she provided them with some outstanding back up vocals...

*note...my nephew john, trying to take out Francesca in the beginning and then he points out that song keeps saying the 'a-word'...

just smile and enjoy...

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11.10.2012

...embarrassing moments, did that just happen...

day 315...


...you trip up the stairs, your skirt is caught in your panty hose...you have a booger hanging out of your nose...you fall off a chair for no reason...those are the moments...where you want to shrivel up and die and then later die of laughter (hopefully)...

they are the moments of embarrassment that help us form who we are...I have had my share of falling up steps or chairs but there is one I will never forget...

...'scene, circa 2000, central catholic hs retreat/diversity week...an assembly where the mood is respectful and somber...& I step up to the podium to read a poem...I'm off and start reading, I come to a word, 'crutch' and I say CROTCH well of course I have to fix it and that is where I become mortified...everyone has now realized I have said crotch...assembly is over and I'm destroyed and to add insult to my slip my guy friends yelling crotch as I walk down the hallways or die laughing when they keep saying they know what is on my mind...I wanted to run and hide but then I found the humor (many years later, no just days) in it...& I decided it was funny, it was not the end of the world ...if you can't laugh at yourself then someone else will...

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11.09.2012

a little wind and water or feng shui...

day 314...

feng shui is..."complex body of knowledge that reveals how to balance the energies of any given space to assure health and good fortune for people inhabiting it.

feng means wind and shui means water. In Chinese culture wind and water are associated with good health, thus good feng shui came to mean good fortune, while bad feng shui means bad luck, or misfortune." (about.com)

simple steps to feng shui-ing your life...

ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

FOUR. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.

FIVE. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.

SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.

EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.

NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

TEN. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.

TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.

THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'

FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

FIFTEEN. Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.

SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.

EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice

TWENTY ONE. Spend some time alone.

...find your balance...find your feng shui

<3 MH

11.08.2012

the start of this holiday season with no other than -- mr. CHEVY CHASE...

day 313...


...this definitely will go on my most favoritest christmas movies ever (post coming at TBD date)...but no holiday season would be complete without ...CHRISTMAS VACATION...so for those of you that are not ready; bring on the HOLIDAYS & when the 24th rolls around & "when Santa squeezes his fat white a*# down that chimney tonight, he's gonna find the jolliest bunch of a*%holes this side of the nuthouse." 

c. griswold on shopping for the perfect tree...




c. griswold on the perfect lights display...



c. griswold speech, best christmas ever!



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